Plus size women need to feel sexy and in order to feel it, they need to look it and know it. Many times plus size girls cover themselves up, which has it’s place in romance, but sometimes you need to let out your inner voluptuous vixen and wear that bustier and thong with a garter, fishnets and Candies. Every man wants his partner to be sexy, aggressive and take him when he least expects it. If he doesn’t, maybe it is time to look elsewhere.
Most of you are going to buy plus size lingerie via a catalog or online, because it takes a very bold person to walk into Frederick’s and say “I want something that makes me look like a porn star”. If you have that boldness already then rock on sister!! Now the look we are going for is more seductive then porn star or stripper and needs to be adjusted to your own comfort level. Go from the ground up and examine your bare body in a mirror. Now the hard part, self analysis. Keep this positive, no negativity allowed. Ask yourself the following:
What is my absolute best feature? (boobs, butt etc)
Am I a hourglass, pear or apple? (apple meaning, not very curvy just round from mid-thigh to shoulder)
How far do I want to take this vixen look? (are we talking daytime TV or late night cable or somewhere in between)
Why should you put yourself through this examination? Simple, there are not many plus size models showing off sexy lingerie and you do not need to waist your money on something that will look awful on. It is very hard to determine what something will look like on, but getting to know your body will assist. You want to make sure you are getting items that are going to compliment your figure and emphasize the positives. Remember, a glass of wine, the right music, hot clothing and a man to take advantage of is a great reward unto itself.
Obviously there are too many parts of your body which you may have chosen as your best feature. It would be impossible to give you an idea of what exactly would be perfect for you. This will take some creativity on your part, but here are some tips you can use to help make everything perfect.
1. Wear the lingerie around the house so you can, for lack of a better word, break it in, make sure it looks great and is comfortable.
2. Pear shapes should balance out their bottoms by wearing a sexy shear babydoll type top, you can create the illusion of an hourglass with this. Bustiers and corsets are good for all body shapes and busts, men love them and they are just plain hot. Although you may need a hand getting into some of them, corsets can be tough sometimes.
3. Boy shorts are sexy and a hell of a lot more comfortable than thongs. They also help shape a bit, they can add some curves to a flat butt.
4. Keep accessibility in mind. You will want items that come off easily in the heat of the moment.
5. Heels are great, but if you do not normally wear them do not use a romantic evening to try them out. Men find bare feet and stocking feet sexy too.
6. Take a good shower and scrub up like you are going to the doctor. Then take a relaxing hot bath with scents that will match your perfume/body spray. Once you are out and dried off, lotion yourself with matching scents and then add your body spray/perfume. There is a good reason why they make bath salts/oils, lotion and body spray sets.
7. Use body glitter powder sparingly from the bust down to mid-thigh before you put anything on.
8. Wear the lingerie under your outfit for the night, it will keep your mind on what’s ahead.
9. Turn on that feeling inside, you want to have a “school girl” crush on your partner tonight (if you don’t every night already).
10. Get him to your place, make sure the lights are dim, candles are lit and start peeling off your clothes to reveal the confident, sexy, voluptuous, buxom, plus size woman you are.